you know i don’t think we often talk about how difficult it actually is to suddenly realize that a belief you thought was good and moral and correct was actually really fucking toxic. how you have to look at something and go ‘oh shit, oh i fucked up. oh this is going to take probably years at minimum to deprogram from my brain because of all the little ways this shit pervaded the rest of my beliefs’
so. to all the people picking up all the pieces of a recently shattered world-view and trying to figure out what is safe to keep and what has to be thrown away and started over
to all the people having to relearn how to even listen to other people
to all the people putting in the work to do better while struggling with the guilt that comes from finding out you were the asshole
i’m proud of y’all.
it’s hard to admit being wrong and even harder to change in the aftermath. just keep doing the best you can and just know that the effort is appreciated. everyone can change. everyone can do better. keep fighting.
I find it so incredibly lovely that Dan and Phil played an indie game early in dapg revival. Don’t Scream hasn’t even been publicly released yet. They both have followed the account and probably dm’d for private demo.
Spooky week isn’t a spur of the moment thing: it’s been in the works for a while.
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Checking the game account and the creators are so sweet! The one who’s been posting had his wife and his mom as game testers and aww they failed so miserably but also funny and cute 😅💕
Please please please I know we all love Friends and Chandler was our favourite character and Matthew always put a smile on our faces and that’s all amazing but can we please please please talk about this:
“I’ve had a lot of ups and downs in my life. I’m still working through it personally, but the best thing about me is that if an alcoholic or drug addict comes up to me and says, ‘Will you help me?’ I will always say, 'Yes, I know how to do that. I will do that for you, even if I can’t always do it for myself! So I do that, whenever I can. In groups, or one on one.
And I created the Perry House in Malibu, a sober-living facility for men. I also wrote my play The End of Longing, which is a personal message to the world, an exaggerated form of me as a drunk. I had something important to say to people like me, and to people who love people like me.
When I die, I know people will talk about Friends, Friends, Friends. And I’m glad of that, happy l’ve done some solid work as an actor, as well as given people multiple chances to make fun of my struggles on the world wide web…
but when I die, as far as my so-called accomplishments go, it would be nice if Friends were listed far behind the things I did to try to help other people.
People who interview bands always choose the most boring ass questions. “What is your writing process like” “what’s your favourite song on the new album” WHO CARES. When was the last time you saw a dick that wasn’t your own. What does your tour bus smell like. If all of your albums gained sentience which ones would hate you. Fuck marry kill but with your entire touring crew. You have to get a word or phrase tattooed on your forehead what is it. If your band was a person what would their pronouns be. What mcdonalds item do you relate to the most. On a scale from 1 to 10 how bad do you need to pee right now. What could you teach a 5 year old in 10 minutes.
